You may be scared, your voice may break, your hands may shake.

But despite the fact your mind and physiology was working against you, you picked up your massive ball sack, walked up to her and engaged her like a man.

THIS is the definition of bravery.

Pushing through the mental block and going for what you want, despite your mind incessantly screaming at you to STOP!

Your brain has the insidious ability of pulling you back into your comfort zone.

You're subconsciously afraid of what you might become, your mind doesn’t like change, comfort is safe, and your brains primary goal is to keep you safe.

The problem is, it stops you from growing.

And the first step to growth is bravery.

Building the courage to step into an unknown situation, where literally anything can happen.

And trust me, women will reward your bravery.

There is something endearing about a man who pushes through his internal blocks.

Not only will women appreciate your courage, but this builds your self esteem.

Building evidence every time you push yourself out of your comfort zone that “You are a man who goes for what he wants.”

And in any situation, whether it be making an approach, going for the kiss, or taking her home.

Even if you’re not quite sure exactly how to go for it, or you’re unsure if she will reciprocate, you still push past that resistance and GO FOR IT!

The underlying principle we teach at social freedom is: “Just go for it.”

Because if you don’t, then you’ll never know.

Robbing yourself of a potential amazing experience, or connection, a memory you’ll cherish for a lifetime.

Don’t cheat yourself of the experiences you deserve.

Go for what you want.

Make some memories this week.

-Ben